Not All Those Who Wander Are Lost…Really?

Not All Those Who Wander Are Lost…Really? 

this was my favourite phrase of all times. in fact I had it tattooed. but now I’m I’m wondering at some point even Wendy felt lost in Wonderland so until when can we keep up with this wandering? Yes the world is a huge playground and yes you have to do things that scare you, be open to new things etc. But all these things stop when you hit a bumpy road and you want to  just crawl next to the person you feel the safest. but many times if you are a wanderer that person is miles away and you are far away of that warm cuddle of the loved one. Okey okey it makes you stronger and you know better how to handle the difficulties as you get older aka you get wiser. but when you’ll be wise enough to protect yourself form the things that makes you unhappy. hmmm probably never? I can see still my mum getting upset for a small thing. While wondering my next move trying to figure out where I’ll end up everyone says it’s ok to get lost you’ll find smth. So until when do I have to wander and find that thing? I think it goes beyond of finding something what you it’s about wanting to be found. As we wander letting people in our lives, letting go some of them(although sometimes it’s really hard) we wait for this one person or one thing to come and help us to identify ourselves. apparently it’s harder to find that one thing a desire, a talent, a will is rather hard to find on our own expect some lucky people… it sounds a little pessimistic but though life eh? so we full fill our lives while waiting for that one magical thing to happen. Till it happens I’ll continue this blog so see you around!